Prize Cometh Before A Fall

I was thrilled recently to have my book, Everybody Says Shalom, named a Sydney Taylor Honor Book. These awards are given annually by the Association of Jewish Libraries to the children’s books that best portray the Jewish experience. I was especially excited because Sydney Taylor’s All-of-a-Kind Family series was such a big part of my childhood. The fact that the family in the story was Jewish and had a whole slew of sisters (five sisters to my family’s four) made me feel like I belonged in that family. Now our bond is even closer. If you look at the photo from an old book cover, I’m the girl in the upper left!

Anyway, it was a lovely conference, good company, and an enormous honor to receive the honor. Since the event was held in Charleston, which I’d never visited, I took the next day to see Fort Sumter (fascinating and fun) and walk around the lovely town.  All good. But as a clever friend quipped, “Prize cometh before a fall.” On the way back to my hotel to pick up my bags for the airport, I tripped on an uneven bit of sidewalk and broke my wrist. Now I’m in a cast for six weeks. I don’t remember this happening to any of the characters in the books.

 July 2016

About Julia

There’s a new Muppet on Sesame Street. Her name is Julia, and she has autism. She is part of a new community outreach initiative called See Amazing in All Children, designed to increase understanding of the one in sixty-eight children born in the United States that are being diagnosed on the Autism Spectrum Disorder.

The focus of the initiative is not only to show some of the behaviors that may be displayed by young children with autism, but also to show the commonalities these children share with “neuro-typical” children. The idea is to make interactions between all kids easier and more fun. There are videos (both animated and live action), daily routine cards, a terrific “Amazing” song, and much much more, all available for free on the web site: So far Julia lives only in the outreach materials, but it's gratifying to see what a big welcome she has received.

Personally, I am very proud to have been involved in this project, brainstorming, troubleshooting, taping some video bits, and writing the storybook: We’re Amazing, 1, 2, 3. It was a labor of love every step of the way, exactly the kind of material I wish had been available back when my son was diagnosed, more than twenty years ago. At the very least, our family wouldn’t have felt so alone. If your life has been touched in any way by autism (and even if it hasn’t yet been), please visit online!

January 2016

Happy Birthday, E.B. White!

“All that I hope to say in books, all that I ever hope to say, is that I love the world.” -- E. B. White

E.B. White was born 116 years ago, on July 11, 1899.

It may be a bit of a cliché to claim Charlotte’s Web as my favorite children’s book, but I can’t help it. From the moment I first read (and reread) it as a child to the dozens of times I shared it with my own children, it has never failed to move me to tears. The book is more than 60 years old, but is freshly beguiling on every read. And how can you resist a story that kills off one of its main characters, but still uplifts you, ending with (slightly abridged):

         [The barn] was the best place to be, thought Wilbur, this warm delicious cellar, with the garrulous geese, the changing seasons, the heat of the sun, the passage of swallows, the nearness of rats, the sameness of sheep, the love of spiders, the smell of manure, and the glory of everything.

         Wilbur never forgot Charlotte. . . . She was in a class by herself. It is not often that someone comes along who is a true friend and a good writer. Charlotte was both.

Absolute perfection.

That’s not to pass over Stuart Little or the sometimes overlooked but beautiful homage to wilderness, The Trumpet of the Swan. What E. B. White gave me was an early appreciation for nature and the natural ebbs and flows of life—“Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder,” he advised—and though I didn’t know it at the time, he probably planted the seeds that led to my becoming an author. His prose was witty, wise, and gorgeous; he always chose the right words—and just the right words, no wasted verbiage. It wasn’t until much later that I discovered White also wrote for adults. I still consult his Elements of Style (the newish version, with the bonus of illustrations by the great Maira Kalman). His story and poetry anthologies are a revelation.  “Natural History” is undoubtedly the most romantic poem ever written about a spider (E. B. White is a one-man PR marvel for spiders).

So have a piece of cake for E. B. White—or better yet, revisit one of his classics. Prepare to be utterly enchanted. He was SOME WRITER!

A Tragic Anniversary

Frequently I have what I think is a good idea for a manuscript, but when I start writing, it just doesn’t work. The information below is from research I did for one of those discarded ideas.

April 15, 2015, marks the 150th anniversary of Abraham Lincoln’s death. April 15, 1865, was to have been a day of Thanksgiving, marking the end of the long and bloody American Civil War. The president had proclaimed it.

The Confederate Army had surrendered several days earlier. There would be no more North against South, no brother against brother: The fighting was over. But the hating was not. On the night of April 14, an angry Confederate loyalist shot President Lincoln as he and his wife watched a play in Ford’s Theater. Lincoln died of his wounds the next morning. The national day of giving thanks became a national day of mourning.

The president’s funeral train traveled from Washington, D.C., to Lincoln’s home state of Illinois, where Lincoln would ultimately be buried. It traveled through 180 cities. One of them was New York City. For two days, including an overnight viewing at City Hall, Manhattan was draped in black: houses, storefronts, churches, synagogues, fence rails, and spectators, too. Only the red, white, and blue of flags at half-mast in every conceivable place, broke up the monochromatic landscape.

Sixteen horses made their way slowly and solemnly up Broadway, pulling the fallen president behind them.  One hundred thousand men—no women, in keeping with the times—marched in the funeral procession: veterans, firefighters, religious representatives, lodge men, and, by special last-minute permission from Secretary of War Stanton, a large contingent of free black men.  Sorrowing crowds watched from every inch of sidewalk; from the high branches of trees en route; and from windows of bordering buildings.

And that’s where one more tiny but fascinating detail comes in. Two little boys watched from one second-story window. The house was that of Cornelius Schaack Roosevelt—and the two boys are the future president, Theodore Roosevelt, and his younger brother, Elliott (who would be the father of future first lady Eleanor Roosevelt).  These moments of convergence probably happen often in history; in this case, a photographer happened to catch the moment. One of the many reasons I love history!

February 2015'

Mispronounced Words

I confess: I am a word snob. It sets my teeth on edge when I hear people using words incorrectly. But just between you and I**, it’s even more irritating to me to hear words mispronounced. It’s not that I’m never guilty myself. My husband gleefully reminds me on a regular basis of the seventh-grade English class in which I said “TREE-cherous” (for treacherous) and of the Bat Mitzvah party, same year—the year I met my husband—during which I loudly proclaimed, “I love Janis JOE-plin.” I will never live that one down. 
Still, hypocritical or not, when I hear news reporters and politicians talking about things “nucular,” it makes me want to go nuclear. Ditto for “misCHEEvious.” Where is that final i that they’re enunciating? And please, don’t get me started on the second month of the year. So many people have ignored the fourth letter of the word—FebRuary—that the folks at Webster’s have capitulated. Not only is it now acceptable to say “FebYOUary,” it’s actually the first pronunciation listed in their dictionary. It’s enough to make me want to run screaming for the hills.
I know that English is a living language, changing according to common usage. The more people there are who pronounce a word wrong, the more likely it is that, before long, they will actually be pronouncing it correctly. So I’m going to stick with the written word, releasing words into the atmosphere for people to pronounce any way they like—and out of my hearing.
**KIDDING! It’s between you and me. But don’t get me started on bad grammar.


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